I have now used follow-up emails to everyone I know three times and want to continue it. My wife, however wants me to stop because she feels I only need to send an email once. She also feels I am "begging for money".
I have argued many times with her over this topic but she does not want to listen to me.
Can everyone please give me your opinion on this so I can put this issue to rest with her?
I have found that many of the people I send emails to want a more personal approach. They have said it was nice that I sent 1 initial email introducing them to the fact that I was registered for the Ride, described what the ride was about, and how much I wanted to raise. It was more of an introduction to "I'm coming to ask for a donation in person" email rather than repeatedly "nagging" for a donation. The precursor email gave them time to think about how much they were willing to donate. Don't be afraid to ask for a specific amount of donation when someone asks what they should donate. I have suggested that for donors that contribute $100 or more to my ride I will have the name of a person they want me to ride in memory of added to my jersey. This has been very well received, and I have had great support with this. Hope this helps.
I'm not one to "nag" at folks either. I use emails to network with folks I've had contact with in the past and who I have some regular contact with. Although I don't subscribe to the single email idea, I also don't do it "continually"...I send out a "I'm in the Ride" email fairly early and then I tend to be selective with follow-ups using email.